Just don't do it...
Just don't do it...hold a grudge. It's just not a good thing to do and you will eventually get over it and forget about it. Is it really worth it to continue holding onto something that makes you angry or upset? I don't think that its healthy to keep a hold of the feelings like that. It's so much easier to stay positive and just let some things go. And then that makes you the better person as well for not continuing on with the mad or upset thoughts. I have had to go through A LOT in the last 2 years and to start off this new year..I wrote a letter to the person that I was holding grudges against for a lot of things that he's done and I wrote him a 9 page letter and just let it out and told him that I won't be holding any grudges and I forgive him for all that he's done. Not saying that I didn't do wrong as well, I know I did and admitted that. But I wanted him to know that I have forgave him...I won't forget some of the things from time...