I believe that I have been the best mom ever for each and all of my kids. I don't go out and just spend money on myself and if I did its only been a couple of dollars for something that I really needed or something.
I think that I am the best mom ever to my kids because I am here for them and don't judge them, I support them in whatever is going on in their lives. I love them unconditionally and I make a point of telling them to have a great day every morning when they leave for school and I hug, kiss them and tell them that I love them every day at least a few times! I don't want them to ever doubt how much they mean to me. They are my world, they are my life.
I don't think that I have really gone into the I am the worst mother because landslide. I have been there for my kids, I have spent tons of time with them all and with each of them for their one on one mom time and I have done the best that I can for them.
Yea I have went easy sometimes for dinner or whatever and made romen noodles or chicken nuggets or frozen pizza or things like that but I don't think that I am the worst mother in the world for it. I think that all of us at one point in time have done the same thing. We all need an easy night now and then.
Maybe at a time or two when I actually spent a couple of dollars on myself instead of buying the kids something I thought that but for the most part I believe that I am a good mother to all my kids.
There was a few times when I was having hard choices to make in my life and my friends couldn't always be there for me since they were going through their own things and thats when I turned to music.
No matter if it was me going through hard times dealing with my mom and all the BS that came along with it or if it was boyfriend problems or whatever I could always turn on the radio or put in a cassette tape in my player and Bon Jovi would make it all better!!
All through out my life I have relied on music..I can't do much of anything these days without music. I can't concentrate on getting things done around the house unless I have music playing. I don't like to cook or clean or even take a bath these days without having music on. Its helped me through alot and will always be there.
When I was little, I wanted to be a teacher and a mother.
What did you dream of being when you were little? What did you imagine that occupation would be like?
I dreamed about being a teacher and helping kids. And I dreamed about getting married and having kids, twins and being happy and living life to the fullest and being the best person, mom and wife that I could be.
So when are you filing your taxes? Are you going to be getting a refund?
I am planning on hitting submit tomorrow night probably a few minutes before the 14th in hopes of getting them approved within a day or two. Hoping that it doesn't take longer then Friday morning to get approved so that I can get them back in 2 weeks!! WOOHOO!
The Holiday I am most looking forward to this year… What is the holiday you are most looking forward to in 2011? Why? Who will be there? What will you do to celebrate? Hmm, I am not sure...I guess July 4th, Independence Day, that will be a great holiday to look forward too because by then I will be an independent single mom! And then after that, Christmas. My children and maybe some friends will be with us to celebrate :)
I have been thinking about this for awhile now and I have made the choice that I am going to do it because I believe that its the right thing for my kids and myself. So when we get the tax refund back, which I am e-filing tomorrow night at midnite. We should get it back within 2 weeks, that's the usual. Within a week of getting the money, I am going to become a single mom. I am telling hubby to leave this time and am set on not letting him back into our home. I plan on buying him a bus ticket back to the town that he grew up in most of his life and has friends there that he can stay with until he gets on his feet. I have had my mind set on this for awhile and yes I have said this before but this time, I have so much on my mind that I want things to be less stressful and for my kids to live the rest of their childhood being happy and not basically ignored by their own freaking father and knowing that their mom and dad isn't getting along and him staying here isn't the healt…
So I have gotten a little behind on the challenges that I took for blogging everyday this year/month...shame on me! So I am going to be catching up tonight. I am in a blogging mood and more then likely it will be way more then what my challenges say to write about. I have a ton on my mind and am going to share some of the things blogging tonight. I am determined to get caught up. Hope everyone is having a great week
What is the best movie you have ever watched? Did you relate to the main characters? How do you feel when you watch it? Can you watch it repeatedly without boring of it?
The Best movie I have ever watched...hmm, well I would say My Best Friend's Wedding and it ties with Grease. Yes I definitely related to each of the main characters in each of the movies. In my best friends wedding, one of my best friends is a guy and he's the love of my life and I love the movie and it makes me feel mushy every time I watch it. And with Grease...thats another awesome movie that I can relate too. Love both of them. Know them each by heart and I could watch them all day long and never get bored!
I think that the most compliments that I get would be on how tall I am. Being a 6ft woman is a challenging thing sometimes, especially when you were the tallest in your grade for awhile starting early on like back in middle school!! But its a good thing too..long sexy legs come with being tall. And a nice smile and eyes too.
I think that it was at the beginning of the year last year when I saw this thing in the tree. I didn't touch it but it was a big huge nest and had something in it and it looked so creepy! I took pictures of it, not too sure where they are now, probably in my photobucket account somewhere but no idea where and I have thousands of pics in it so one of these days I might come across it again and share but until then, just know that it was an ugly big thing in a white messed up looking huge nest in the tree!! YIKES!
So Leon comes home, looks on the computer and see's that I downloaded a game for Sean to play. He doesn't like it, thinks its stupid. Sean comes running to me telling me that Leon is telling him that its stupid etc etc. I go in there and tell him to not play it then and to just deal with it, ignore it whatever just hush and leave it alone because I looked at the reviews and the videos and Sean liked it and I thought it was a good one so I allowed it to be downloaded on the "family" computer. Leon says ok whatever to me. I come back in here to do whatever I was doing and then it gets quiet in there, yea should of known something was up when he was quiet. He's in there showing Sean freaking videos of PWI (Perfect World International) its a pretty good game too, I play it now and again when I need to beat something up lol..like I am getting the feeling to do right now! Sean comes in here and says can we delete the other game and put Perfect World on it and I said I …
So today the blog dare is the News, why do or don't I watch the local news.
I watch it now and again. Usually no reason too. Not to much usually going on around here and it seems like these days all I hear about is the meanness and violent things going on and not the good Samaritan things, if there are any out there anymore to hear about, sometimes I wonder!! So I usually don't watch it.
Share with me on why you do or don't watch your local news?
Hey there everyone,
There is something that I am doing this year in hope's of making a difference in this world.
There are 2 sites that I love, one is The Hunger Site and the other is Care2 with each of the sites all you have to do is click to donate. I wish that I could help more, I wish that I had money to donate to the causes but, I don't so for now I choose to take a couple minutes out of my day to click on each site and click on the things that I support.
To the right of my page about half way down or so are the banners for The Hunger Site so you can click on one of those if you like and donate.
Got the call just a little while ago, actually 2 calls from the schools. I love the automated messages, no school for tomorrow!! The kids are thrilled!! I am a little less thrilled! Oh well, its all good, as long as they are quiet while I'm working its good. Having kids fuss over nothing while I'm on the phone isn't such a great thing!
They are teenagers, well my youngest is pre-teen so they know mom works from home and need to behave while they are here and I'm working. Lets hope its a great week ahead.
So today its snowing for the first time in 2011. I swear I don't think that we ever had this kind of weather on the other side of the state where we moved from!! I love it here though. Been here a year and a half or so and so far this is the 3rd or 4th time I think that we've had snow compared to maybe once in the past 15 years on the other side of the state!! LOL quite a little difference over here. And of course since were closer to TX they always seem to get what we get or vice versa.
I would of taken pictures but my stupid cam quit on me. Its just showing a black screen no matter where I point it, so I guess that means I am buying me a new cam this year too!! So now thats three camera's I'm buying!! LOL I am going to be a camera buying fool here in a few weeks. Belinda one for her to take tons of pics of that beautiful baby boy she's going to have in April and one of my best friends one as a Birthday/Christmas gift since he didn't get one for Christmas like…