Aug 6, 2015

Being sick sucks!

I was SO sick earlier today!!! I don't know what the heck got a hold of me but something sure did!! All of a sudden right after I logged into work at 2 I didn't feel that great. The heat index being like 106 probably didn't help much!! I ate a little lunch before logging into work and didn't drink enough water and haven't been apparently at least that's what I'm thinking so I'm making sure I drink my water daily now especially with the heat b/c I can't and don't want to deal with the thought of being sick like that again!



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Aug 5, 2015

Stay Strong!

I wanted to do another positive post for today's blog on staying strong. We've all been through rough times, there is always a bump in the road it seems like wheny ou least expect it or when you really just don't need or want anymore surprises and then here comes a bump in the road. Like the saying when it rains, it pours. You just have to keep looking forward and stay strong. And that doesn't always mean keeping a smile on your face and acting like everything is okay, it just means to keep being yourself and don't fall into the negativity of things going downhill. Things will pass, they always do no matter what, they will go away sooner or later. 


When things are looking down, just keep your head and your chin up and keep thinking about going forward and what the goals are. For us, this is a pit stop so to speak to where I want to be say in 2 years. I just have to keep thinking that right now where we are and all that is going on and happening is a minor pit stop to what we have planned and goals set for the future. We just have to take one day at a time and continue to think positive and not dwell on the bad things or negative things and keep looking forward and one day the bad things or the bumps in the road will pass on by and we will be where we want and need to be, which for us/me is back in Texas and buying a home.


I found this saying/quote and just loved it and had to put it on here and share. And I think that its true. I think that smiling is a sign that you won't let things get to you, its not that you are faking it and smiling and acting as if there isn't anything wrong, but, for me, I smile because it just simply helps me get through the ups and downs going on in my life. I have to smile, because if I don't I'll cry and I don't like doing that. I have but, I just smile and laugh and I know that I've been through some rough times in my life and I'm still here and still standing so therefore I just keep getting back up when I'm knocked down and I keep looking forward and not back and moving on down the road. And yes at times it might take me a minute to get over the bump in the road, but I will and do get over it. So stay strong and keep pushing forward, not only for yourself but, for your loved ones/family  and friends. Whether it be for your kids, your special someone or your friends you just got to keep pushing on, it will get better. Just remember you've been through other bad things and somehow got through and always get through the good things as well so this too shall pass :) And just like the saying says, make them wonder how your still smiling. Especially the ones thajt put you down or doubt that you can do things, let them see you smile and keep pushing on, show them you are stronger than they give you credit for!!




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Aug 4, 2015

Letting Go


So today's post is about Letting Go. Sometimes its just not that easy. Some things are "easier said than done" and yes this happens to be one of those things. When you hear the phrase "Letting Go" what comes to your mind? For me the first thing is to let go of someone that has done you wrong but, you just can't see it at the time that they are doing you wrong.

For me, this is letting go of not only the past with events that have happened but, letting go of one of my children. His betrayal, backstabbing, dis-respectfulness towards me and more. My middle son to be exact. He has done what us as parents and especially I believe the moms out there never want to think about the chance that our kids will betray us! Well there are a few bad apples out there and my middle son is one of them, unfortunately!!

He's done nothing but disrespect me since he came to stay with his brothers and myself about 3 years ago. Ever since then he's had a few issues with his anger (making demon noises at games that he plays when he gets really mad, frustrated and upset at them. Yes Demon noises is what my youngest son referred to the noises as and I believe it! It sounds horrible!! And then his issue of breaking/damaging other's property. For example, my car!!!! He scratched up my bumper on my car which had NO scratches/dents etc on it since I had bought it and then all of a sudden my son who was 17 at the time decides to mess up MY car!!!! My step dad looked at it and thinks that it might of been a knife that he used on it to make the scratches as deep as they are!! One of my best friends looked at it and said yea the scratches are too deep to just sand and repaint. And my car is Silver so you can definitely tell that scratches are there on the back of my car! 

What I don't get/understand is that why mess up someone else's property? If you are mad etc, I don't condone breaking anything but, if it comes to that, mess up/break something of your own! Not someone else's property!!!! And not only my car, but he broke his brother and my playstation 3 that we had as well. So yea its just little things like that, that started going downhill fast!

He began to soon after all that within a few months, he started kissing my friends behind that we were staying with. I was paying her rent for all 4 of us to stay there and he thought for hwatever reason oh he doesn't have to listen to me b/c its her house and he knew that I wouldn't holler or get onto him for not listening/doing chores etc b/c it wasn't my house! So he started kissing up to her and that is why he didn't move out with me and the other 2 boys. He decided and thought that it was more important to kiss up and lick someone else's butt rather than to respect his own mother!!

So the backstabbing and betrayal soon followed thereafter and she didn't help to make things better, just worse. So this is what leads to this post "letting go" I'm letting go of not only a beset friend of over 25 years and a woman that I have called my sis all through out the years but I'm also Letting Go of a son!!! My own son! I've decided that when he feels that he can come to me and be a grown up and stop kissing up to someone that he barely knows and only kisses up to her to get something out of it, if he should possibly ever decide to behave and respect the one that raised him and gave birth to him then I'll consider having him back in my life but, until then, I'm letting go of both of them. Because of betrayal and backstabbing which does nothing but equals drama and I don't do or go for drama!! Never have and never will!!




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Aug 3, 2015

Someone Special


This is SO true!! I have someone special in my life right now and through out the years of our lives, we were together but, never really "knew" each other and weren't even friends really....sad I know to spend so many years with someone and then for something unthinkable to happen and change things!! I have found that forgiveness can open the doors to things that might not of been there or clear to you in the first place. It's been a hard last 2 1/2-3 years. Things have gone on that I don't wish on anyone else to ever go through. And it was very hard on my family, all of us, each of us it hit in a different way. But through all this crap, something special came out of it, a newborn friendship that we hadn't had before and probably wouldn't of had if things wouldn't of happened like they did. And a new found love for each other and respect for each other that also wouldn't of happened for me I know if things/events that happened leading into this. I didn't right away forgive...it takes time. I had to look in myself and forgive myself for the part that I thought that I played in the events that happened, and without doing that for myself which took months, things wouldn't be where they are today. So I am thankful that the storms that we have went through have made us better in so many ways and that positive things are coming out of it and not just for me but for others in my family as well. So I am very thankful that as the saying says "someone makes me smile even when they're not around" so true....I get to talk to him on the phone and lots of letter writing which is great for both of us and so much more personal than what we can sometimes say in person b/c sometimes the words just don't or won't come out the right way but, with writing, that's a different story. So I wish everyone that reads this that they find or have that special someone that makes them smile even when they're not around...it helps to have that at times when you don't think that you can go any further or at times when you just need a hug etc. I wish you each the best in your lives and nothing but goodness and positive things for as long as you're on this earth!! 




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My Life!

One of my ALL time favorite songs!! And it happens to fit very well at this moment in time!

"My Life"

Got a call from an old friend
We used to be real close
Said he couldn't go on the American way
Closed the shop, sold the house
Bought a ticket to the West Coast
Now he gives them a stand-up routine in L.A.

I don't need you to worry for me cause I'm alright
I don't want you to tell me it's time to come home
I don't care what you say anymore, this is my life
Go ahead with your own life and leave me alone

I never said you had to offer me a second chance
I never said I was a victim of circumstance
I still belong, don't get me wrong
And you can speak your mind
But not on my time

They will tell you you can't sleep alone
In a strange place
Then they'll tell you you can't sleep
With somebody else
Ah, but sooner or later you sleep
In your own space
Either way it's okay
You wake up with yourself

I don't need you to worry for me cause I'm alright
I don't want you to tell me it's time to come home
I don't care what you say anymore, this is my life
Go ahead with your own life and leave me alone

I never said you had to offer me a second chance
I never said I was a victim of circumstance
I still belong, don't get me wrong
And you can speak your mind
But not on my time
I don't care what you say anymore, this is my life
Go ahead with your own life and leave me alone

So I am sharing these lyrics today to share that its "My Life" and while not everyone agrees with the way that things are being done or have been done or even things thatj will be done, its my life so go ahead with your own life and leave me alone! That's to a few certain people out there in the world who was at one point one of my best friends/sister but because of all the negativity and bs that we've been through for the past 2 12 years, I am refusing to deal with the crap anymore!!

When I was living there I get that it was her house and she of course had the right to do/say whatever she wanted in her own home, that wasn't really my issue, my issue was bringing us down with her!

I get that people have bad days, Lord knows that I have had and will have plenty of those myself but, I refuse to bring others down with me on those days. I just keep going and yes I admit as others do when you have a bad day you gripe and whine some etc. But after the day or after an hour or however long you deal with it and move on. Not her! She was griping, grouching, whining and hollering about bs things over and over and over!!

And I"m not trying to judge her or anyone,  just saying damn its MY LIFE so let me live it and stop being so damn cold hearted, rude and hateful all the time! Some people actually appreciate living and are grateful and thankful for things and people in their lives unlike some...

The woman is a soon to be 42-year old next month and she's whining about taking a shower ONCE a week!! Okay to me that is just EWW to begin with and the fact that she gripes about actually going in there and taking a once a week if that shower!! Seriously?!!! Who does that? And then she won't drive her brand new 2015 car, instead she's making her mom and step dad get up and come get her every morning to take her to the train station to go to work. Now what is her reasons behind flipping making her parents do this?? She has issues...she says that she has medical issues yet the doctors and specialists that she's gone too for over the past 2 1/2 years, they find NOTHING wrong with her!! She was driving herself to work by herself before but then all of a sudden this year she's just done absolutely nothing!! She doesn't cook, she has her mother make her something and her step dad bring it over EVERY night!!! Shouldn't it be the other way around?? Her actually doing things for her parents since they are in their late 60's/early 70's. But okay it is what it is and she live her life like she does but she gripes about things that she could actually change! She has control over the things that she gripes about!! And that's what I don't get or understand, what is the point in complaining 24/7 and then griping about others that do exactly what she's doing?? And when watching shows such as Wheel of Fortune, she hollers at the tv "Idiot! You don't know that??!" Idiot etc and other names....Just a RUDE CRUEL HATEFUL woman who is FAKE and claims to be a "Christian" woman yet she goes to church b/c of her mom and then comes home and is the total opposite! Going to church um yea that's a "positive" thing I understand and get that so why go home and be so negative afterwards?? Just doesn't make sense...

Anyway, good luck to her and wishing her the best, I am not going to lower myself to her standards and wish anything bad on her like she did me....just hateful and rude!!

Anyway, this post went another way than I intended it to go....

Point guessing I had to get all that off of my chest...its her life she can do what she wants/say what she wants but do you have to flipping drag others down with you?!



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Aug 2, 2015

I'm Still Standing!!



So today the 2nd of Aug, I am going to write about a song that just came on my Spotify playlist that I hadn't heard in awhile but, it fits me to a T here lately!

It's the song called I'm Still Standing by Elton John.

Here lately I've been knocked down but I have gotten back up and I"m back stronger than ever!! I refuse to let other's bring me down!! We have one life to live and I am determined to live mine to the fullest and also without the negativity that others seem to be encircled in!!

I am not perfect, my life sure isn't perfect by any means but, even when the storms hit and believe me that hit every now and again just like I'm sure storms come through everyone else's lives as well but, with me and I know a lot of others as well, we all choose to take the good with the bad and keep moving ahead and forward and when we get knocked back or knocked down we get up and move forward even stronger than before!!

Very thankful for so much in my life!!!


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Mall Cop 2 - Review

Mall Cop 2 Trailer

  1. Six years after he saved the day at his beloved New Jersey shopping mall, security guard Paul Blart (Kevin James) is taking a well-deserved vacation. In recognition for his hard work, he's won an all-expenses-paid trip to a security convention in Las Vegas, and decides to take his teenage daughter, Maya (Raini Rodriguez), with him. True to form, however, Paul just can't relax and take it easy, so when he uncovers a criminal threat to the hotel, he springs into action.
So I just rented this from Redbox Friday night and watched it for the first time. I have mixed emotions about it really. I thought that it was okay but, I also thought they could of done better. If I chose which one I liked best it would of definitely been the first one.  So yes in some ways it was disappointing and didn't like the beginning of it to much.


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