I think that doing something that you know is right but its for the wrong reason has been wrong....when I got married, I did it for the wrong reasons. I did it because I felt pressured into it, I felt my mother giving me the ultimatum marry him or else! So back then instead of standing up to her and telling her exactly what she could do with her opinion and telling her that its MY life not her's, instead of doing that I gave in and got married. I haven't been happy for the past 17 1/2 years!!!! I gave in to her and this year, this year I not only stood up to her, I am doing what is best for me and I am getting out of a marriage that shouldn't of happened.